February 23, 2008
Another
argument for married clergy
A retired priest in Virginia was sentenced to prison
for embezzling parish funds. He spent the money on a secret family.
I was raised Roman Catholic, and I attended Catholic
schools for twelve years. I was an altar boy during the early 1980s. This
arguably enables me to make a claim of insider status in the Catholic
Church.
No, I’m not going to use this space to reveal some
repressed childhood trauma. I have no unpleasant stories to tell about the
Catholic Church. Moreover, practically all of the Catholic clergy I have
met have been decent, dedicated people.
Nevertheless, no one can deny that the misdeeds of
some Catholic priests have claimed far too much space in the headlines in
recent years.
And most of these negative news pieces revolve around
the repressed sexual feelings of priests---whether normal or deviant.
While the priest in Virginia seems to have had quite conventional tastes,
other priests have been charged with pedophilia.
Even devout Catholics have felt betrayed by these
scandals within the church. Unfortunately, there has been relatively
little demand for a solution to the root causes behind the scandals.
Catholics value their traditions and are slow to challenge church
hierarchy. “Don’t rock the boat” is not a line of any catechism that I can
recall---but it ought to be.
Certainly the Catholic Church did not invent
pedophilia. Nor does anything about Catholicism encourage it. However,
Church recruiting practices do seem to attract a disproportionately large
number of men who have this inclination. We aren’t reading news stories
about pedophiliac rabbis, Baptist ministers, or imams. It always seems to
be a Catholic priest.
Catholic clergy are required to take a vow of
celibacy. This has been strictly enforced since the 1200s. (For hundreds
of years in the early days of the Church, Catholic clergy did
marry.) Therefore, the priesthood is limited to men who are willing to
abstain from normal sexual relations.
In theory, this is supposed to mean men with
conventional appetites who possess a superior level of dedication to God.
In practice, this quite often means men who have abnormal sexual
inclinations to begin with----whose sexual activities must be practiced in
secrecy whether they are clergy or not.
It is therefore easy to see how mandatory celibacy
channels men with abnormal sexual tastes into the priesthood. Why not open
up the ranks of the priesthood to more normal men? (And women, too---but
that’s another essay.) Practically all religions have married clergy. The
Catholic Church is a rare exception in this regard. Celibate clergy are
not required by either the Old or the New Testament. This rule is rather a
remnant of a misogynistic period that the church underwent during the
Middle Ages, when even sex within the context of marriage was viewed as
“unclean.”
With the number of priests declining and all the bad
press over the secret lives of priests, the Catholic Church would do well
to rethink its policy on the priesthood and marriage. Sexuality is a
normal part of life. There is no reason why Catholic clergy should have to
choose between their humanity and their dedication to God.